Archive for April, 2011

Christmas gift ideas for teenage boys?

A question from Josephine: Christmas gift ideas for teenage boys?
I have three nephews, ages 12, 16 and 19 that I haven’t seen in over a year, and I have no idea what to get them for Christmas. Asking their parents isn’t an option (long story and not relevant). I have no idea what they’re interested in. Any ideas, anyone? :)
GregD, I don’t know what you were trying to accomplish with your ridiculous and completely immature answer, but I’m reporting it…
Jessica, if that were an option, don’t you think I would have done it by now? God, some people are rude.

Most detailed answer:

Answer by Emily
It depends on how much you want to spend

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Don’t Be Anxious About Infant Development

Many parents get all worked up over infant development, they need to stop and realize every infant develops on their own time table. Infant development guidelines are an average idea and every child is different, don’t let yourself get worked up to much, it can cause undeserved anxiety.

Concern is normal, but you also do not want to pass that concern onto your child, they will do it their own way no matter what you do. And you can actually cause your child to be anxious on a regular basis and at this point in life they do not need to start worrying about what their parents are thinking.

When a child is developing on it’s own schedule, your doctor will be the best judge as to whether you should worry or not. They will perform simple testing every time you take your child in to see them, and there is a good chance they will take a wait and see stance about any concerns they may have about the development of your infant. Don’t worry until they do.

They will watch carefully to see that your child is on track, and chances are, they will not be concerned if your child is a little late to hold their head up, to crawl, to walk or anything else. Try to remember that these milestones in a child’s life are an average age for development, and each child is different.

Try to remember, your infant will feed off you, meaning if your pushing for development, your infant may feel anxiety and already feel they are being pushed to achieve. It’s way to young to start your child on the path to a low self esteem from parental pushing.

Just make sure you have a doctor you can trust, then listen to them. Take the time to enjoy each step in your infant’s life, remember, you’ll only see these development milestones once. Infants and children develop in their own way, embrace it, enjoy it, and realize that this is a journey you can’t do again.

An important part of infant development is copying. Eating, and sitting your baby in a baby high chair is a part of this. Byron Jonas approves of the Fisher Price high chair brand. This article, Don’t Be Anxious About Infant Development is available for free reprint.

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A question from Checkin’ Things Out: Why is it so normal that all teenagers are embarrassed by their parents?
Even if they have movie star parents, would most teenagers still think their parents are wierd? Why is that?

Mine can say the most hurtful things (my looks are wierd, why don’t we have a better house, car, cell phone, etc., you should be ________etc., etc. Things my closest friends would never tell me, my teenagers freely tell me almost daily. They know it hurts my feelings…..

Is this just normal teenager stuff? Will they grow out of it and start appreciating all we do for them? When?

My chosen answer:

Answer by crayonbox_x
Oh My Goodness, Lol Its Normal. Just React By Saying, Well This Is How I Look & You Can’t Change It. They Might Take It To Another Level if You Dont Say Anything. Im A Teen And Yes It Is Embarrassing. But, Its Only Because Teens Think They Can Do Anything On They’re Own, And Dont Wan Parents Around, I Hope I Helped xoxo-Ces.

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Teenage girls have a lot to swallow when it comes to weight issues and fitting in. To prove how real the issue is, see how much they get offended when a school friend says that they think they are fat. It is sad but there is more you can do other than having pity. Have you proposed dieting as the solution?

To start on the right foot, you have to find means of assuring her that you are not taking sides against her. Focus on reminding her of positives like how good a student she is.

It needs you to convince her to lose the weight. Encourage her and entice. Always emphasize that it is just a fraction of life and weight doesn’t define her.

If you can keep hinting regularly about how important it is to control weight the better. Use enticing methods to convince. Clothing is a good way to do that. Talk of the funky jeans she will be able to wear which she cannot right now.

Paint a picture about a certain lifestyle so that you are indirectly enticing her to lose weight. You are not blatantly telling her to hit the treadmill by four ‘o’ clock or else. Start taking out the sugary stuff from the diet. Do away with the fatty stuff and all those salty snacks.

Enlighten her about those constant temptations that will bombard her, telling her that its not worth it but keep her on the right track.

You have to be there with her, every step of it. When you withdraw immediately after giving a long list of do’s and don’ts it all becomes a futile quest. She needs your support for example when cutting down the amount of junk foods she eats. Encourage her to swap the choc bars with fresh fruit, an apple or something.

Let her have her say when the menus are being planned, bought and cooked. She can bring in all those changes she feels she needs to be able to make that gradual diet switch. Give complements and always throw in a thumb up when you see progress.

See additional pieces of work created by this very author about areas like Cheat Your Way Thin and eodd diet.

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What are some shows on teen parenting?

Question posed by ericaaalynn.: What are some shows on teen parenting?
I need to pick four shows on teen parenting for parenting class. I have The Secret Life of the American Teenager and Teen Mom. What are two more?

Thanks!

Best answer:

Answer by Mama Dukes
I think those two are enough……….

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Question posed by Baby Girl: Why do teenage girls have so much problems at home with their parents boyfriends?
So i was at home last night and my moms boyfriend got mad at me cause i asked if someone could let the dog out. And things from there got really bad. What do i do?

The No 1 answer:

Answer by BAM!
sound like your moms boyfriend…is VERY immature. And he has self control issues

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A question asked by kori_k: What do I do about this – Parenting Teens – 30′s and older only please.?
My son is 16. He has girlfriend who is16. Her mother & I talked alot about each others rules. She doesn’t want them to be alone because she is scared what might happen. I understand what she is saying. I told her if my son is invited 2 go anywhere by her daughter that I would be calling her 2 veryify that is really what is going on. It isn’t because I don’t trust my son. It is because I didn’t do it with his sister & she lied every time she had the chance. I trust him & I try 2 explain 2 him why I do it is because didn’t do it with his sister & I should have & I learned from it & there for I am doing it right this time with him. He is mad at me now for doing it. I don’t see what the big deal is if he is where he says he is going 2 be. I told him I would be doing this and he didn’t say anything about it / act mad. But tonight he went 2 her house 2 watch a movie. I called her mom but she didn’t answer but I left a message, she didn’t call me back. When he got home I told him & he got mad

The best answer:

Answer by something awesome
16 years old? Leave them alone and stop talking to the mother. They’ll be on their own in a few short years. Teach your son about safe sex if you haven’t already. If that girl’s mom doesn’t chill out, she’ll create one seriously wild daughter when she gets free at 18. You’re going to breed resentment with your son if you don’t trust him; you’re blatantly showing him you don’t by meddling in his romantic affairs.

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Summer Day Camps Are For Everyone

With school soon letting out, parents and kids begin to think about what they are going to do in the months ahead. For many summer day camps are the perfect answer. Throughout the country many and varied programs are being set up as in years past. Whether you enroll in a short day or extended care facility, day camps fit the bill for kids of all ages and parents who work.

Going back about five generations the YMCA began holding day camps to meet the needs of communities. Prior to that time most kids spent the summer visiting rural relatives to escape the summer heat of the city. And the county kids looked forward to visiting the big city with its hustle and bustle.

Not so today. Activities for children are found wherever they live. Whether you are looking to learn about the great out of doors or have your sights on becoming a great scientist, these camps are your ticket.

It used to be that summer school was the only option to help kids retain the skills they had learned during the school term. Today these camps offer a better alternative. Parents can still spend their money on the week long camps located away from home. However, more and more are choosing to enroll their children in day long programs. These offer a wide variety of activities and are very affordable to the point of being free in some cases

If your child needs to improve his musical abilities, there are special classes available. They not only teach your child how to read music but focus on individual technique With computers being used everywhere there are camps day sessions that offer children the opportunity to become proficient with them. There are even classes for the vocalist or orchestra leader in your family.

Most children love animals and many zoos offer children a summer program that lets them get up close and personal with many types of animals. Some marine parks allow the children to interact with water animal in their natural environment. They learn about the care, feeding and training of many types of creatures. An overnight session may be offered for those who wish to visit animals that are awake at night.

Many cities boast of a community center. These places may be small or large based on the size of the city. Their programs may include theatre arts classes and a variety of indoor sports. Some teach martial arts and help kids know how to protect themselves. All seem to boast of a swimming pool. You can usually find sports camps that will help get your kids get ready for their favorite once tryouts begin in the fall.

If you want an old fashion experience for your child it too can be found in the summer day camps experience. Everyone remembers the fun of learning about fire safety while singing around the campfire. Hiking through the forest or romping on the beach is so much fun. There is nothing like enjoying the great out of doors. Then we cannot forget the arts and crafts, camp music, storytelling and friends we met over the summer vacation.

Find just the right camp for your son or daughter. Whether it’s music summer camps Orange County or the summer camp San Diego at your local elementary school, your choices are many.

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Question posed by artemis0629: How would I go about meeting cute British teenage boys online? Aged roughly 16-17.?
My friend always seems to pick up cute guys on runescape, but i’m not allowed on it by my parents. So how would I meet some? It’s really irritating how she can get guys but I can’t :x

Top answer:

Answer by Holsiekaulitz
have you got facebook? you could use yoville if you have. But be careful, there are a lot of people who pretend to be who they’re not..

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Your Child Can Easily Save The Planet

The wonderful experience of Summer Camp has been a way of life for generations of Americans. For many it is a time of increased independence. Sleeping away from home and making new friends. Others who did not get the opportunity to go to Childrens Summer Camp just don’t understand what it is all about.

In many a book and movie alike summer camp has been the back drop. The “Parent Trap” and “Indian Summer” just to name a few. Yet, most movies and books are not a realistic portrait of what camp is all about . The documentary Summercamp is one of the most realistic true stories about Summer Camp. It is filmed at Swift Nature Camp in Wisconsin. During the filming over 300 hours of film was used to make this charming 90 minute feature. It truly shows how the kids interact and what makes camp special. This is not a sugar coated feel good movie, it shows kids in real life with real problems.

These days parents heavily schedule their children making it more difficult to plan for summer camp. In addition, we parents, have given much more importance to technology than nature. After all the boogie man outside rarely comes in to harm your child. Thus making the world of mature unsafe. It is estimated that most children spend nearly 6 hours a day in front of some sort of screen.

Richard Louv, author of the ground breaking book Last Child in the Woods: Saving Our Children from Nature-Deficit Disorder finds this an unfortunate development. He calls this phenomenon nature-deficit disorder and he links it to some of the most alarming trends for our kids. Including rises in obesity, attention disorders and depression.

Camp can be a place to teach all children independence and friendship, while getting up close and personal with the outdoors and nature – something that’s crucial if the next generation is to see a reason to preserve and protect mother earth. As parents, how do we make sure our children’s summer camp put Nature in its programs?

Ask yourself these questions before selecting your child’s summer Camp: What about technology? All electronics can take away from the true camp experience. Ipods and cell phones allow children to hide in their electronics rather than participate with the cabin. Louv says that tent mates with video games or text messaging can easily distract your child. At first most campers are not so keen on this idea but after a few days at camp they see a reason to take a break.

Where is the focus? Louv suggests many camps are trying to be all things to all people, they offer computers, sports and acting. Historically camps made the most of their natural settings, and encourage visitors to immerse themselves in the environment with play.

Is there independence for play ? Nature-deficit disorder is almost always due to the over-scheduling of children, Louv points out. Thus giving kids less time or energy to explore their world on their own. Quality camps have figured this out and set up planned and non-planned times for play. Much can be learned when kids just play on their own with out adults setting out the rules.

Does the camp have a nature program? Does the camp have actual class time where nature can be explored and discovered? These classes should be hands on and not classroom activities. Does this Nature theme run throughout all the programs? Is the camp aware of its environmental footprint and does it teach this to the children?

Camp Food? For years camps have had a less than stellar reputation for its food. Lately this has changed. With more vegetarians, camps have had to adapt. Be sure to ask about fried foods. How about a salad bar with fruits and yogurt? Don’t forget about catering to food allergies as well. Within all this, the meals must taste good and be kid friendly.

In Wisconsin there is a special palce, Swift Nature Camp. A coed camp for children 6-15 that places a very strong emphasis not only on developing a desire to know more about nature but also on acquiring a deep respect for it. The philosophy is to engage kids in fun-filled learning through hands on participation. It is natural curiosity and self-discovery that make this program work. This Environmental Camp is Not School.

Swift Nature Camp promotes hands on, experiential learning in our Nature Center. This combined with being in nature via canoe and backpack trips fosters an appreciation for the nature around us.

A wonderful community is born each summer when kids from all over the world come together to learn more and appreciate nature . This community helps a child mature by providing support and encouragement. SNC encourages campers to be more self-reliant and in-tune to others. Thus creating more sensitive and understanding children. Do you feel Earth might just need a little more understanding of its inhabitants while needing to understand and respect nature? Swift Nature Camp might be the place for your child this summer.

If you are just starting to look for the best summer camps please see Summer Camp Advice at www.summercampadvice.com

Swift Nature Camp a small non-competitive, traditional coed Overnight Summer Camp. Boys and Girls Ages 6-15 enjoy nature & animals along with traditional camping activities. This Science Camp specializes in programs for the first time camper as well as an Adventure Camp for teens.

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