asking all parents on teenagers?
Friday, March 5th, 2010 at
4:05 pm
Natalie asked:
what is your policy on having another teen of the opposite sex in your son/daughters room?
what is your policy on having another teen of the opposite sex in your son/daughters room?
Tagged with: Daughters Room • Parents • Teenagers
Filed under: Parenting Teenagers
Like this post? Subscribe to my RSS feed and get loads more!
I’m a teen, so I’ll tell you my mom’s policy lol. She has to be home, and the door has to be open (:
My parents don’t care…
I’m allowed to sleep at my BF’s house, and my BF’s were always allowed to sleep over at my house. My parents are pretty chill about that stuff. lmao. And I’m 15.
Why am i getting TDs?
It isn’t MY rules! ***?
I’m a teen, but my moms policy is:
No boys in my room. No matter what. We can be anywhere else, but not my room.
It used to be:
Do whatever you want. Whenever. Just don’t trash my house.
But some things happened and now its changed.
I am aloud to. One guy is aloud to spend the night. But I’ve known him for 11 years. So, it’s all good. Besides the door has to be open and he has to be on the floor. Lol. When my cousins and best friends go camping I’m aloud to with my “brother” and “cousin” with his little sister and my actual cousin. Lol.
My moms rule is:
My door must be open.
My mom or dad has to be home.
My parents will be walking by and “checking” on us.
I’m a teen, but these are my parents rules.
If it’s a REALLY close friend of mine, that my parents trust with their lives, they don’t care.
But, if it’s a boyfriend, the door has to be open and one of my parents have to be home.
Well, the rule for me was that there had to be some other person home (whether it was a parent or my older sibling) and the door always had to be open and the light on.
The rule will be the same for my daughter and son when they are older
I would say that it’s okay if the door stays open, but honestly I’ve done it like that – with his mom in the living room so… I don’t know what I’m going to do when they are teens?
What do you think?
My parents let me have them in my room and they don’t care. My dad wanted me keep the door open with my ex. But we closed it anyways. My mom thought my dad was being ridiculous by making us keep the door open.
But my friend’s mom is really freaky about those things. Her mom won’t even let a guy fallow her into her room even if she’s just getting a coat from the closet.
my mom lets my boy go in my room when hes over (which he hasnt been allowed to in forever, however. his stupid parents suck), because she knows that im on BC and we’re being safe, and will be quiet. its kind of a dont ask/dont tell about whether we are having sex in my room or not, because quite frankly she doesnt want to know.
i used to be able to be in my boys room with him, but with the door open, but then his parents got lame and we have to sit in the living room with them in the same room constantly -_-
I am a teen and i will tell you what my parents policy is. I am allowed to have a certain boy in my room but he is my god brother and i have known him since i was two. Any other boy is not allowed in my room period. If we have one of my guy friends fly out to see me he has to sleep in my brothers room or on the couch. i can’t even have guys hang out in my room, even with the door open.
Well, honestly I’ve never had a boyfriend so I wouldn’t know. But, my one friend who I have been friends with for 12 years is allowed in my room alone with the door open or closed. My parents trust him and me. We have a brother/sister relationship and we live really far away from each other so we could never date. Nothing bad has ever happened either. And, he’s only been alone in my room with me like twice. I’m usually outside with him beating his **** in basketball. (: LOL
That is an absolutely No. I have a very strict policy on knowing what is going on in my house.
Close friend / boyfriend everyone in my family knows and likes = sure. close the door, keep it open, whatever. just no sex.
somebody they don’t know well and don’t trust – it’s either door open or sometimes we’re not allowed to go in my room, sometimes my parents judge on looks LMFAO.
my parents dont care at all, they trust me
My mum’s pretty cool about it. She knows I have no interest in having sex yet especially as I’m only 15 and she knows i’d talk to her about it first before I did to make sure I’m safe (:
they don’t care i have guys stay the night all the time.i’m 15