question for parents with teenagers?
Saturday, September 4th, 2010 at
2:33 am
xy asked:
okay, so today in english we got a bit off track and we were talking with our teacher who was telling us about a while ago he went to pcik up his 15 yr old daughter from this party, and how it was like a house party and there was all these smashed teenagers everywhere and they were all having *** and ra ra ra and how he was shocked at it all. we were all like ohh you’re being naive about it and he was like yeah i was actually worried for her, if you think that the thought of your parents having *** is bad, than the thought of your teenage daughter having *** is a hundred times worse.
okay, so today in english we got a bit off track and we were talking with our teacher who was telling us about a while ago he went to pcik up his 15 yr old daughter from this party, and how it was like a house party and there was all these smashed teenagers everywhere and they were all having *** and ra ra ra and how he was shocked at it all. we were all like ohh you’re being naive about it and he was like yeah i was actually worried for her, if you think that the thought of your parents having *** is bad, than the thought of your teenage daughter having *** is a hundred times worse.
so, my question is, im 16 years old and my 18 year old boyfriend and i have had *** a few times but all without my parents knowing. is it really as horrible thought knowing your kid is having *** as my teacher said? i obviously dont want to tell my mum about it, but i **** keeping secrets from her. i wasnt going to talk to her about it or anything, but if she does find out later on (hopefully not but whatever) when im older or something is it really going to upset her?
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Filed under: Parenting Teenagers
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yes many parents would rather not know than know when it comes to *** because it upsets them. many parents prefer that their kids wait until the’re old enough, in love, or married.
being 16 and 18 you’re legally old enough
there are things you should keep between you as a couple. i think *** is one of those – your parents don’t need to know as it is between you and him, part of an intimate relationship. i never told my mum, but i think she’s guessed by now – she wouldn’t expect me to actually go up to her and tell her though.
I sincerely hope my daughter won’t have *** until she’s old enough and mature enough not to _need_ to tell me about it. Being 15 and blind drunk at a party would not qualify. Being 16 and having chosen to have *** with her boyfriend? I’d rather she waits a bit longer than that, but I wouldn’t be that horrified unless it turned out to be “oh, we didn’t use protection, we assumed pregnancy/ STDs wouldn’t happen to us”.
I never told my parents I was having ***. Since I’m married with two kids, I imagine they’ve worked it out