When teenagers get caught having sex, who is blamed more? The boy for asking or the girl for agreeing?
Friday, September 3rd, 2010 at
2:44 pm
BeechCheerleader123 asked:
Me and my boyfriend were watching football in the bonus room and he asked me to have sex, i didn’t want to but i also kinda did, so i said yes. Our parents found out and the are both more mad at me then they are him, I thought the guy is more at fault because he put her in the situation. I know we are both at fault but am i right or wrong? Thanks.
Me and my boyfriend were watching football in the bonus room and he asked me to have sex, i didn’t want to but i also kinda did, so i said yes. Our parents found out and the are both more mad at me then they are him, I thought the guy is more at fault because he put her in the situation. I know we are both at fault but am i right or wrong? Thanks.
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Filed under: Parenting Teenagers
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Because it’s YOUR body. YOU have the says so. YOU suffer the consequences of being pregnant if that happens. HE’S just along for the ride.
Well you do have the guts to say “No thanks” and you chose to not say that, so that’s why their probably mad
It is the girls fault because it is always a question to her. The boy usually wants sex, the girl is supposed to accept or not.
It might sound so absolute but if the girl says no it wil never happen. Usually the boy is supposed to ask for ***. Girls never ask, they wait to be asked.
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The second reason is that parents are usually not offended when their boy fucks, they might even take pride in. But when a parent finds out his daughter is being taken care of by a boy he might get upset, because someone is doing your child! You get the point
Both parties are at fault in this case when minors are involved. Legally if both parties agreed to it and they are underage they are both and can be both charged with underage ***.
well both of u guys are wrong because for one you could of said no and if you had doubts in the beginning then you should of said no because when u have *** you should be sure that u are ready to handle whatever comes after that and he is wrong because he should of controlled his sexual feelings and just respected the fact that you guys were spending time together
You’re both equally to blame. You didn’t have to say yes, he didn’t force you. He is no more responsible than you.
I think that both parties are equally at fault for diffrent reasons.
He insinuated it, and asked for your approval.
Since you complied, it also makes you at fault.
There is no ‘right’ or ‘wrong’, what happened… happened.
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i don’t think you’re parents have any right to be mad at you nor him! if you said yes, and meant it, then that’s your choice and if he invited you that is his choice, and if you did it, it is your choice… you are both responsible but still, there is abselutely no reason for your parents to get mad! *** is a natural act and if both parties agree there is nothing wrong with if. It it comes to the worst and you get pregnant or somthing it is both of yours responsibility and you have to sort it out together!