A question from crankj92: What do you think of my theory? It’s about parents and teenagers, can you help?
I’ve been thinking maybe one reason teenagers -normal ones- clash with their parents is because suddenly the parent isn’t a god anymore.
Think about it. For the last ten years, you had all the answers. You could make it all go away with chocolate milk and a hug. Now, quite suddenly, you’re an insufferable moron in your offspring’s eyes. Not only that, but even on a good day, s/he honestly just doesn’t need you as much. S/He can and will walk to school, for example. S/He can just go out to a movie, and doesn’t need you to be there. S/He would honestly just rather go hang out with his/her friends than play catch or Monopoly with you.
My second theory is that it’s also largely concern for romantic areas, as well as possibly a little defensiveness. Your kid is falling in love. You’ve been in love before, and you’ve been rejected. You see your kid moving in that place and you want to protect him. You also maybe see it as something of an invasion.
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Also, you see every mistake you ever made potentially happening again in your kid, so you want to keep your kid safe, so you end up clashing.
But mostly I think the first one. It also gets to be that your kid is getting to where his tastes differ from yours. He likes Metallica, and you can’t stand that screaming garbage. He’s painted his room red when it looks terrible to your eyes. He wants to wear _those_ kinds of clothes. And you can’t really stop him the same way you could when he was six.
I’d like more answers from parents if possible.
Chosen answer:
Answer by MATT N
those are all good but i just thing there going thought being a teenager like my older brother was mean from about thirteen to now which hes seventeen but not all teenager are like that .
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